Sunday, June 30, 2013

Your Kindness is Killing ME!



            Have you ever watched Red Dragon (2002) and sat back thinking, wow, the killer isn’t that bad of a guy. I mean, yes, he’s killing entire families and he’s plotting an atrocious murder while on a date with a blind woman. But there’s a scene where he takes a blind woman to see a tiger who is sedated. She comments early in the film that she remembers seeing a tiger when she was little. He brings her into the zoo where a tiger is laying on a table. She ruffles the tiger’s fur. And there’s a moment, a pause where you think “Wow, that’s sweet.”
            This is one of the best parts of the movie. This is a part where you know that you’re in too deep. You have empathized with a serial killer, a brutal serial killer. Someone who you can’t justify his actions like you can with Dexter Morgan, but someone who is deeply troubled but has just done something so sweet that it’s moving.
           
            Proverbs 12:10 says: “The righteous care for the needs of their animals, but the kindest acts of the wicked are cruel.”

            My first thought, something I’ve thought for a long time is – does that mean that everyone who is “not righteous” committing only evil and incapable of good? Well, maybe. I’m mean, I’m not here to lay down this theology and I’m uncomfortable making declarations of faith based on one verse alone, but maybe….

            But as I watch the woman ruffle the tiger’s fur, I consider, what if the woman’s pain when Edward Norton brings the serial killer to justice, is too much to bear? Making the serial killer’s kindness a curse to her.

            Another thought is- The Bible says in other places “there is no one righteous” (Romans 3 – better to just read entire chapter). “No one is righteous”.  Have you ever thought of that? Have you ever thought that my kindness might just be undermined by my evil? Have you ever considered that we are all evil?

            I know this isn’t a popular thought. We’re all basically good people just sometimes we’re capable of genocide, murder, rape, theft, and a laundry list of evil deeds. Or it’s not us; it’s other people who are capable. So today, ask yourself, is my evil causing my kindness to be cruel? Maybe when they say kill them with kindness, what you’re really doing is hurting them because sometimes you’re kind and sometimes you’re cruel.